this has all been covered over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and inevitably turns into a pissing contest... so go read all the other "Why you you/I/we/mydog/mom/dad/whatever OC" threads that end in pissing contests.