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July 10th, 2017, 09:22 AM #31
Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
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There are no pacts between lions and men.
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July 10th, 2017, 09:28 AM #32Banned
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Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
I definately think a person bearing gifts should consult a parent before offering it to a child. I used to get a little miffed when even old ladies in the local market used to bend over and give my son (then an infant) pats and tickles. In that case, Even if the intention is sincere, I DO NOT KNOW YOU and don't appreciate the up front familiarity! I prefer a reserved society where people are polite and helpful when asked, but don't invite chumminess too quickly. I practice what I preach
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July 10th, 2017, 09:29 AM #33
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July 10th, 2017, 09:35 AM #34Banned
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July 10th, 2017, 09:45 AM #35
Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
Rules are written in the stone,
Break the rules and you get no bones,
all you get is ridicule, laughter,
and a trip to the house of pain.
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July 10th, 2017, 09:50 AM #36
Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
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July 10th, 2017, 09:50 AM #37
Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
It seems you handled it well. Being vigilant, but not over reacting was IMHO the proper way to handle the situation. There are actually a few of us fossils around who still think it's OK to be nice to people, even children despite the MSM wanting everyone to believe any polite or kind gesture shown by a stranger will have a regrettable outcome.
You are a straight white man. You don't get to be the victim, sweetie.
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July 10th, 2017, 09:57 AM #38
Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
Being alert is a good thing. Being prepared to act is also good. You didn't over react. If you did and you drew, you would be in jail right now, IMO.
Ayoob covers this sort of stuff in detail, I recommend reading his book called Deadly Force, understanding your right to self defense.
I agree with your stance of being polite with the old dude until he left, then teaching the kids about strangers.
I do have one question, can you expound on this?
"take a mental note of who's who"
What does that mean?Life has a melody. Not great, not terrible.
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July 10th, 2017, 10:04 AM #39
Re: Strange encounter at diner with family: what would you do?
When I walk into a restaurant or other public place, I make a quick look around at everyone. It only takes 3 seconds, and I take note of anyone who looks unusual, or more likely to be a threat if something goes down. Probably 70 percent of the folks in that diner (which was quite crowded on a sunday morning breakfast) were over 70 year old. Many had walkers. There was a family to the far left with a large party, with a few younger men, whom I noticed. And then i noticed the black haired man, 50-60, with a goatee, who watched me for a second or two longer than normal as we were seated.
I do this routine everytime I sit down in to eat. It really only takes 2-3 seconds.
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July 10th, 2017, 10:07 AM #40
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