[panther76]

I would try Speer Gold dot , Federal Hydra-shok or Remington Golden Saber. Actually I'd try all three, see what works well. I would also keep an eye out to see if Federal starts offering their Tactical HST or Tactical Bonded in .380 ACP. Ditto for Hornady TAP. Both are "next generation" defense rounds, which are truly a huge improvement over first generation hollowpoints, but they are so far only offered in "service" calibers ie 9mm, .45, and .40SW.